Rites & responsibilities

restoring rites of passage for healing, justice and liberation

an online communal inquiry and initiatory journey for white, white-assimilated, and white-passing folx committed to generating healthy* passages in their lives, families, and communities.

A collaboration between ADJacent Consulting, Rite of Passage Journeys, and Youth Passageways

*Notions of what is and isn’t healthy are complex and politicized terms. We use the term in the spirit of the definition put forth by Health Justice Commons: “all that affirms and supports life, allowing us all to live in harmony and dignity with ourselves, one another, and the planet.”

Ages 16+ |  TBA 2024-2025

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Rites of passage are a keystone practice in human cultures: many other elements of cultural health depend on meaningful, relevant, and intentional transition rituals to mark the cycles and seasons of our lives. When such practices are lost or destroyed, everyone suffers. When they are restored, the whole community can flourish.

Through these processes of initiation, individuals shed what has become too small for them, and are challenged and supported in developing the inner resources and understandings to bring their unique gifts forward – into a world that urgently needs what they have to offer.

Designed for educators, therapists, guides, healers, organizers, mentors, parents, youth and community leaders, this curated, online series is based on Rites and Responsibilities: A Guide to Growing Up, a recently-published, seminal guide for rites of passage today.

Over nine months, in a slow-and-steady arc, we will build a community of mutual care and accountability designed to support each of us in bringing meaningful, culturally-responsible rites of passage ever more deeply into our lives, families, and communities. As we study, share, reflect, practice, grieve, organize, and celebrate, we will create space for our points of connection and shared experience as well as honoring the intersectional differences between us. Participants will receive individualized support for the specific contexts they are working in and/or work in caucus spaces as supports their initiatives.

 

Why a course for white people? Isn’t this curriculum important for everyone?

As white, white-assimilated, and white-passing educators, guides, mentors, parents, youth and community leaders, we have particular responsibilities when it comes to reclaiming, restoring, and regenerating rites of passage. We must attend to legacies of theft, exploitation, suppression, and commodification of the practices of our Black, Brown, and Indigenous kin, alongside broader issues of ongoing violence, genocide, and injustice. And, we must deepen our understanding of the harm our ancestors endured, the ways we face oppression today, and the role of rites of passage and related cultural practices in healing ourselves, our families, and our communities. Most white folks are settlers in others lands that were forcibly taken from Indigenous and local communities and live outside of our ethnic and cultural contexts. As a caucus space, this course makes room for the complexity of this terrain. We celebrate and uplift the work of other important efforts that are reclaiming, restoring, and regenerating passages for People of the Global Majority. More details and resources to access these important efforts coming soon!

Participants will:

  • Connect with others working to bring forth meaningful processes and practices for change and growth into their communities

  • Dive into key orienting frameworks for transformation

  • Explore the resurgence of rites of passage today, and how these efforts fit in with the decolonization and other global change movements

  • Explore human development from neurological, psychological, cultural and ecological perspectives

  • Reflect on the impacts of sexuality and consciousness-shifting substances in their own initiatory journey, and the roles they can and do play in rites of passage more broadly

  • Explore the role of identity development in rites of passage, including: dynamics of power, privilege, oppression, and difference; the ways these manifest in terms of race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation, ability, class, citizenship, and more; and how this impacts our work and those we serve

  • Investigate the causes, consequences, and complexities of cultural appropriation, and co-create ancestrally-rooted, culturally respectful alternatives

  • Build capacity to design and/or lead healthy passages, for themselves or others in their community

Co-hosted by ADJacent Consulting, Rite of Passage Journeys, and Youth Passageways, this offering is rooted in Youth Passageways’ Cross-Cultural Protocols in Rites of Passage, a document reflecting many years of learning and inquiry for a multi-racial, multi-cultural working group. We acknowledge our ancestors, teachers, and the lands where we have lived, worked and learned. We acknowledge generations of cross-cultural building - nurtured and nourished through the vision, leadership, and counsel of Black and Indigenous culture-bearers. All of these beings and more make this course possible. The acknowledgements section from Rites and Responsibilities: A Guide to Growing Up additionally names a number of contributors to this body of work. The sum total of this work does not specifically belong to any one of us, and we will seek to acknowledge the lineage of specific contributions as we move through the course.

What’s included in this course?

  • 2, 2-day online deep dive sessions

  • 2.5 hour live zoom session each moon, around or on the New Moon

  • Offline, body and land-based practice tasks each new moon, around or on the Full Moon

  • Partner study session each moon

  • Regular drop-in office hours with course guides, including communal support for self-designed land-based ceremony in Summer 2024

  • Note: the guides will offer a community land-based ceremony in Summer 2024; participation is optional and not included in the course


This course is for you if:

  • You are committed to healthy passages for yourself and your community

  • You value learning in community

  • You are committed to healing and justice

  • You yearn for authentic, meaningful, emergent culture

  • You see a connection between individual and cultural healing, wellness, and transformation

  • You are able to show up care, grace, and self-awareness in community

  • You are committed to ongoing learning and inquiry regardless of how much work and learning you have done already

This course is not for you if:

  • You are committed to specific outcomes and deliverables on a set timeline

  • You’re not interested in the connection between rites of passage and social justice

  • You aren’t willing to make space for others who use different language than you do 

  • You don’t have time and space in your life to devote to the ongoing study aspects of this course

  • You are looking for fixed answers to the questions we are engaging

*Notions of what is and isn’t healthy are complex and politicized terms. We use the term in the spirit of the definition put forth by Health Justice Commons: “all that affirms and supports life, allowing us all to live in harmony and dignity with ourselves, one another, and the planet.”


To learn more before registering, please scroll down to the ‘Registration Process’ section below. If you have a question about your registration or financial details of the course, please contact us.

Want to learn more before you register? Watch or listen to our recent info session.

Here's the link:

Passcode: 7czX31#R

 

Photo credit: Photos above copyright to David Moskowitz, Darcy Ottey, or Clement Wilson. Used with permission.

 

PROGRAM DETAILS

Interactive Online course

Frequently Asked Questions

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Ages 16 +
All Genders

Online

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We ask participants to contribute $0-$5,000+ for the 9-months:

  • $0 allows all to enter with no financial exchange

  • $1,500 meets minimum course expenses, if we have 25 participants

  • $2,500 helps to move toward thriving, and/or helps meet minimum course expenses, if we have less than 25 participants, or some contribute less than $1500

  • $5,000 (or more) supports long-term viability of the work and upholds the dignity of the guides and all who choose to participate (regardless of financial capacity) 

Please review the Rites & Responsibilities Resource Flow Framework for more information regarding the financial philosophy for the course, an important aspect of engaging in this healing work together.

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REGISTRATION PROCESS

 
  1. Learn about Rites & Responsibilities by reading the webpage.

  2. Submit initial registration forms by January 25th, including short essay or video (see details below).

  3. Upon completion of these forms, you will receive an email confirmation detailing next steps. If the guides have additional questions for you, they’ll reach out directly.  

If you need help completing your registration, and/or have questions, please email info@riteofpassagejourneys.org.

Short Essay or Video:

Please submit a short essay of up to 1,000 words, or a 3-5 minute video, to help us get to know you and understand your experiences. Please include responses to the questions below.

  • Why are you interested in the Rites & Responsibilities 9-Month Course? Why now?

  • Please describe how your experience meets the prerequisites for this course:

  • Demonstrated commitment to generating healthy passages for self, family, community

  • Demonstrated commitment to healing, justice and liberation

  • Have experience with or commitment to building culture with white and white-passing kin?

  • What have been 1-3 key experiences on your own initiatory journey?

  • What do you currently understand to be your purpose? How does this course help you fulfill this purpose?

  • What intersections and positions of privilege/marginalization do carry? How has this informed your work and community engagement in recent years?

  • What questions are you bringing to this course? Do you have any questions for the guides?

  • Anything more you would like to share?

Want to learn more before you register? Watch or listen to our recent info session.

Here's the link:

Passcode: 7czX31#R

Questions?
see our FAQ section or send us a message!

 

Staff

 

Darcy ottey

Guide

Darcy Ottey (she/they) is a cultural practitioner, educator, writer, and researcher. The descendant of Quaker settlers, British coalminers, and Ukrainian peasants, rites of passage have been part of Darcy’s life since her youth.

 

Sharon shay sloan

Guide

Sharon Shay Sloan (she/her) is a community steward committed to nurturing communities and communities of practice. She is a white American of Ulster Irish descent, meaning her ancestors are from northeastern Ireland where the land meets the sea.

 
 
 

Guest Teachers

CLEMENT WILSON

Clement Wilson (they/them) is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Queer Rites of Passage Guide, Educator, and Workshop Facilitator. Clement has worked extensively with youth in outdoor behavioral health settings, schools, rites of passage programs, and inpatient residential treatment centers. Clement’s foundational focus as a therapist, guide, and social worker is to cultivate and maintain trusting, safe, reliable, compassionate, and consistent relationships with the individuals and communities they work with…

MARISA WITHY BYRNE

Marisa, or "Sasa", Withy Byrne is a light bearer for the global sexual healing revolution. She devotes herself to the transformative, humbling work of uplifting sacred sexual wholeness. As a “light-bearer,” she is dedicated to easing the isolation and suffering of survivors of sexual trauma, supporting people– especially youth– to develop and sustain healthy and holistic relationships with their sexuality, and to educate and hold healing space for those who have caused sexual harm…

MELISSA GOODBLANKET

Savage Land Films

Melissa Goodblanket is a mother, healer, activist, and subject of the documentary Savage Land. She entered into this current life-walk through the Northwest and grew up in the South along the Appalachian on Tsalagi land. She currently resides on the forced relocation lands of the Southern Cheyenne and Arapaho, where she has made her home for 31 years. Melissa promotes cross-cultural relationship building and unity…

LUCY O’HAGAN

Wild Awake Education and Phoenix Forest School

Lucy (They/She) is the founder and director of Wild Awake, an organisation which seeks to rekindle cultural and ecological resilience through the restoration of ancestral lifeways in Ireland. Lucy has been working with diverse groups for over ten years and is passionate about supporting individuals to recognise their innate gifts and true belonging with the land, as well as deepening understandings of how decolonisation and liberation work…

 

ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNERS

REBECCA CHIEF EAGLE

Rebecca Chief Eagle (she/her) is the Oglala Lakota Sioux founder of All Nations Gathering Center and Stone Boy Women’s Society in Pine Ridge, South Dakota. Becky has worked in tribal government as a nursing assistant, drug & alcohol counselor, housing tenant services representative and compliance supervisor…

SOBEY WING

Sobey Wing (he/him) currently holds the role of President of Kathara Pilipino Indigenous Arts Society based in the Unceded Coast Salish Territories of the xʷməθkwəy̓əm (Musqueam), Sḵwx̱wú7mesh (Squamish) and Səl̓ílwətaʔ (Tsleil-Waututh) peoples…

RAMON GABRIELOFF-PARISH

Ramon Gabrieloff-Parish (he/him) has developed a pedagogy that synthesizes ritual and ceremony, embodied imagination, social justice, and environment for over a decade. As an Assistant Professor of Interdisciplinary Studies at Naropa University…

BRENDAN SLOAN CLARKE

Brendan Sloan Clarke (he/him) is a hapa father, husband, writer, rites of passage guide, and ecological educator with over fifteen years of experience working with youth and adults. His work focuses on integrating ancestral and emergent practices in support of whole communities and a healthy planet…

KRUTI PAREKH

Kruti Parekh (she/her) is a coach for healing and justice and the mother of 11-year old Khalil. She is coaching leaders, healers, and justice warriors to improve personal and community outcomes. She has been working synergistically with young people and families in the most marginalized communities…

 

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